Couples quiz: 63 “how well do you know me” questions

A couples quiz with 63 questions, all in one format: which one of you? Each of you answers every question about the two of you, then you compare. The matches are fun; the mismatches are where you find out how well you actually know each other.

63 questions

How to play the couples quiz

  1. Pick one quiz below. Each is 12 to 15 questions and takes about five minutes.
  2. Go through the questions separately, each writing “me” or “you” for every one, without conferring.
  3. Compare. Every match is a point for the couple; every mismatch is a conversation.
  4. For a proper “how well do you know me” round, guess how your partner answered each question, and score that instead.

Social media

Who scrolls longer, who buys what they saw, who could last longer without it.

  1. Who scrolls on their phone for longer?
  2. Who sends the other person more reels and memes?
  3. Who checks who viewed their stories more often?
  4. Who posts photos or stories on social media more often?
  5. Who cares more about how many likes their photo gets?
  6. Who gets into arguments in the comments more often?
  7. Who follows new people more often?
  8. Who saves more content for later but never comes back to it?
  9. Who changes their profile picture more often?
  10. Who is more likely to buy something they saw on social media?
  11. Who sends voice messages more often?
  12. Who could go longer without social media?

Phones and apps

Unread messages, dead batteries and who really puts the phone down at dinner.

  1. Who checks their phone more often for no particular reason?
  2. Who forgets to charge their phone more often?
  3. Who usually has more unread messages?
  4. Who ignores phone calls more often?
  5. Who replies to messages faster?
  6. Who updates their apps and system less often?
  7. Who has more unused apps?
  8. Who has a messier photo gallery?
  9. Who uses their phone more often right before bed?
  10. Who is less likely to put their phone away during quality time together?
  11. Who keeps their phone on silent more often?
  12. Who is more likely to call instead of text?

AI

Who trusts it, who would let it plan a trip, who writes the better prompts.

  1. Who uses AI more often?
  2. Who knows more AI models?
  3. Who uses more AI-powered tools?
  4. Who trusts AI less?
  5. Who would be more willing to use AI to plan a trip?
  6. Who would try a new AI-powered feature first?
  7. Who would notice faster that an image was created by AI?
  8. Who would be more likely to ask AI for advice about something important?
  9. Who believes more strongly that AI makes people’s lives easier?
  10. Who is more likely to use AI to create images or videos?
  11. Who worries more about losing their job because of AI?
  12. Who is better at writing prompts for AI?

Video games

Who takes losing personally and who skips the cutscenes.

  1. Who plays video games more often?
  2. Who takes losing a game more personally?
  3. Who chooses the highest difficulty level more often?
  4. Who is less likely to skip cutscenes?
  5. Who is more likely to collect every item and collectible?
  6. Who focuses more on the main story than side quests?
  7. Who plays more for the competition?
  8. Who returns to their favorite games more often?
  9. Who is more likely to buy a game on release day?
  10. Who watches other people’s gameplay more often?
  11. Who shouts at the screen more often while gaming?
  12. Who gets more emotionally invested in moral choices in games?

Emotions

Who cries at films, who apologises first, who is the better listener.

  1. Who of you gets moved more easily during movies?
  2. Who of you is more expressive?
  3. Who of you feels nostalgic more often?
  4. Who of you expresses anger more often?
  5. Who of you stays calmer when things don’t go as planned?
  6. Who of you is more likely to show jealousy?
  7. Who of you opens up faster when feeling sad?
  8. Who of you shows gratitude for little things more often?
  9. Who of you laughs until they cry more often?
  10. Who of you is more willing to talk about emotions?
  11. Who of you is more optimistic?
  12. Who of you is more sensitive to criticism?
  13. Who of you usually apologizes first after a conflict?
  14. Who of you feels anxious about new challenges more often?
  15. Who of you is a better listener in conversations?

The rest of the quizzes

These five quizzes are the free ones from the coupleroom app. The app has 40+ more, including Emotions 2 and 3, Habits, Money and Travel, and it does the scoring: you both answer on your own phones and the app shows the matches, the mismatches and who knows whom better. Prefer questions to quizzes? Try questions to ask your boyfriend, questions to ask your girlfriend or the would-you-rather dilemmas.

How does a couples quiz work?

Both partners answer the same questions about the two of you, separately, then compare. In the “which one of you” format there is no right answer, only whether you agree, which is the whole point.

Is this a “how well do you know me” quiz?

It becomes one if you score it that way: instead of answering for yourself, guess what your partner will answer, then check. Every correct guess is a point.

Can we play the couples quiz on two phones?

On this page you can each read from your own screen and compare at the end. In the coupleroom app it is built in: both of you answer on your own phone and the app reveals the results together.