Questions for couples about values and beliefs

Politics and faith are the subjects couples tend to route around to avoid a row. A calm conversation works better than avoidance.

20 questions

Political views

Get to know each other's political views in deta and understand what unites and divides you in politics.

  1. How do you see the healthcare system in our country?
  2. What’s your opinion on the right to bear arms?
  3. What’s your attitude toward immigrants?
  4. What’s your stance on gender equality?
  5. What do you think about the legalization of cannabis?
  6. What are your thoughts on sex education in schools?
  7. What’s your opinion on social programs (e.g., child benefits, housing subsidies, financial assistance)?
  8. What are your thoughts on mandatory military service?
  9. What’s your opinion on raising the retirement age?

Faith and meaningful moments

Share your first experiences and favorite moments related to faith.

  1. Tell me about your first experience with a church/temple/mosque.
  2. Tell me about your favorite prayer or mantra.
  3. Tell me about the first time you felt God's presence.
  4. Tell me about your first impression of religion education in schools.
  5. Tell me about the most important religious figure to you.
  6. Tell me about the first time you had doubts about your faith.
  7. Tell me about a moment when your faith was most important to you.
  8. Tell me about your favorite religious items (a cross, a rosary, an amulet, etc.).
  9. Tell me about the most interesting religious festival you celebrate.
  10. Tell me about the most inspiring sacred text you’ve read.
  11. Tell me about the most valuable lesson you’ve received from your spiritual leader.