Questions for couples about family and kids

Family shapes what we expect from a relationship, usually long before we can name it. These questions help you name it.

22 questions

Kids and time for yourselves

How do you find me-time despite parental duties? Talk about it.

What are your favorite ways of spending time when you’re alone without the kids?
Are there any new activities you’d like to try but lack the time or resources for?
Is there something you’ve given up since becoming a parent?
What do you think about trips or holidays without the kids?
What are the biggest challenges in finding time for yourself since becoming a parent?
What are your favorite ways to unwind after a tough day with the kids?

What are your views on education and parenting styles? What values are important to you?

What’s your opinion on homeschooling versus traditional schooling?
Do you think children should participate in extracurricular activities? If so, which ones?
What do you think about grades – are they necessary?
What’s your opinion on assigning homework to students?
How do you feel about religious education? Would you want your child to attend these classes?
What’s your opinion on school uniforms? Are they necessary?
Do you think children should have a say in the type of education they receive?

Open up about your past and share stories from your childhood.

What is your earliest childhood memory?
Are there any particular childhood memories that had a significant impact on you?
What did you usually do in your free time as a child?
What were your favorite toys or games?
What was your family and home like when you were growing up?
What gave you a sense of security in your childhood?
Were there situations in your childhood that you found difficult?
What were your primary school years like?
Were there any people or places in your childhood that had a significant impact on you?